FAQ

Answers to all your frequently asked questions.
01. How do I know you're real?

I'm not - I'm just a figment of your imagination!

Jokes aside, I verify myself in many ways: I have a website, I post on sites like Tryst and PrivateDelights that require provider verification, I have active social media accounts, and I have a mix of pictures (selfies, professional, etc.).

This quick guide provides helpful tips on finding a trustworthy provider.

If you're still nervous, you're welcome to inquire about a social booking or a SFW chat on the phone.

02. Why do I have to pay a deposit? What if you steal it?!

I understand your hesitation, and I pinky promise I won't steal your deposit. (For starters, the relatively small amount of money I would make from stealing a deposit isn't worth ruining my reputation!)

Many professional services require deposits or charge cancellation fees - hairstylists, airlines, dentists, etc. When you book with me, I reserve that time just for you. This means I plan around it - I decline other appointments, I take time to get ready, I book an incall space or travel to you, etc. A deposit ensures that even if a client cancels last minute (for whatever reason), I'm still compensated for my time. And it ensures that your appointment time remains dedicated to you - and no one else!

03. What is the purpose of screening? I feel nervous sending my personal information to a stranger.

As someone who values privacy, trust me - I get it! My screening process is in place for both your safety and mine, which is why it's so important.

I take privacy and discretion seriously and will keep your information confidential. I also will not contact you anywhere without your consent.

For an additional layer of security, I encrypt my booking form. If you're particularly worried about digital security, I suggest using secure, encrypted services like Proton Mail for email and Signal for texting.

04. I want to book you but I've never done this before! How will it go? What do I say?

First of all - thank you for trusting me. :) You're in good hands!

This guide from Tryst and this guide from a fellow companion both provide a great overview of the booking process, along with some helpful pointers.

My booking form makes it easy to reach out to me! If you prefer to text me or email me directly, below is a template you can use. (Bonus points if you include your screening information right away as well.) Please refrain from including acronyms, coded language, or explicit language or fantasies.

Email/text template:

Hey Leila! I found you on ____. My name is ____, and I'd like to schedule a session with you. Below is all the requested information. Would you be available? Thanks!

+ Full name:
+ Setting (outcall or incall):
+ If outcall, ZIP code for location:
+ Session length:
+ Desired date(s) and time(s):
+ Phone number:
+ Anything else (More info about yourself, what drew you to me, outfit requests, etc.):

05. Can I request a specific outfit? I'd love to see you in [insert clothing]!

Yes! I really enjoy outfit requests. If I don't have a requested outfit, you're welcome to purchase it for me as a gift, and I'll wear it during our time together.

06. What will we do during our date? Do you do [insert activity]?

Every person and connection is unique, so every date varies depending on the individual and our chemistry! After you provide the deposit for our session, I'm happy to hop on the phone with you so you can share your preferences and desires, if that makes you feel more comfortable.

I am happy to share that I am open-minded, enjoy exploration, and am kink/fetish friendly. Please note that I will not respond to emails or texts with acronyms, coded language, or explicit language or fantasies.

(As a reminder, my rates are for my time and companionship only, not for any specific acts. Anything that may occur during our time together is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults of legal age.)

If you'd like to learn more about me and my interests, I highly recommend booking a date with me. ;)

07. Do you do come to [insert city]?

For you? Of course! I love to travel and will happily drive/fly to you. Please contact me to discuss details for DMTY/FMTY bookings (Drive/Fly Me To You). For DMTY, destinations must be within 3 hours of the East Bay.

For the South Bay: Due to the distance, I have an $80 travel fee and a minimum session time of 2 hours.

08. Do you do doubles?

Absolutely! I'm bisexual and have been told I play well with others. ;)

Ready to book?